Sunday 24 April 2016

I found or met my ego!

I always thought of myself that “I don’t have a men ego”, the truth is this…I think it is in every men on earth, it is just how “we” use it!

I am married from last 1 years and I suddenly found myself telling my wife what not to post on her facebook….!!! I surprised myself…am I a “Taliban”???  ( I did many other wrong things too…) And very soon I realized that I am slowly shifting on the wrong path…, the path I hate a path I don’t believe in, absolutely no! … a path of “Men dominated society”, where there is no space for what women feels, thing, there is no value of her ideas thoughts, perspective!

But for some reasons I keep or find myself in “teaching mode” …do this, do that….etc. Is it coming subconsciously in my mind or it is “my experience” my great fat salary against her a house wife or it is the upbringing of our society or my complete fall short of my ideology that men and women are equal. We must see and treat them as an equal persons / humans. Or should I just be satisfied because at-least I “recognize” this situation in comparison of other men?  I now have started believing that I really have to do a strong effort to unlearn things which I have subconsciously learnt. But how…where to start, I think equal partnership and equal engagement in daily home chores to start with. And reading this daily for at-least one year:

1.  Men and women are equal human beings.
2.  Women just because she has come from some “background”, she to have are ideas, thoughts, ideas, perspective to daily life and things which I must respect.
3.  No more how big your salary package or experience is, she is equal to you even if she is house wife!
4.  They do can and have right to do mistakes and learn from them.
5.  Women are expert of things and one should respect them.
6.  They are all are independent human beings and they can treat them!
7.  They can and must take their own decisions on things and one should respect them.
8.   And they have right to get “naraz” on us, yes they can.
9.   And a man is fool if he doesn’t treat her wife as a “princes”, if you think you are a “king” of your world with that ego and what not…your wife is surely a princes.
10. Give are space and change to grow, let her do something she likes to do, parse her, appreciate her; she is your soul mate

I think i need help !!!

Monday 4 November 2013

The New Bag

New set of bags designed by me for iCreations...I should not boast but Photography and styling is also done by me... and enthusiastically supported by my best friend and wife Shrimoyee !!! 






Saturday 27 July 2013

But I am still far

I walked real far
I walked very long
I covered all the songs
But I am still far

Friends I left behind
moments I kept out of my site
I smiled for all of them
But I am still far

Destiny I still not reached
path I am walking on
I have not gave up
But I am still far

Dreams I used to saw
God I to which I pray
Have not change much
But I am still far

Things I used to see
people I do meet
they are not the same
But I am still far

Somebody made me smile
for whom I use to feel
it doesn't seams so long
but I am still far

Don't know where i will reach
who will make me laugh
optimist as i am
But i am still far

Love which I not forget
The promise I still kept
I search only for you
But I am still far

One day has to come
the day i will stand below the sky
will see you from my eyes
But i am still far

Wednesday 5 June 2013

Monsoon arrives

Last night it was first rain of this year monsoon Season, Every one was out to enjoy, specially kids real excited....I tried some "Panning" shots from my camera...






Wednesday 27 March 2013

Amala Tree

Amala tree doing it again...beautiful new leaves coming and it is really feel wonderful to see them 

And while roaming around on my terrace my brother saw this...A Spider having his dinner!!! 

Wednesday 13 March 2013

Chabi



Ek "chabi" mili payari si
uchalti, phudakti, nachati, gaati si
itrati hai phulo ke keyari si
phene huye ek challa, jese chamakti bali si

hasti hai to khul jate hai sabhi taale
roti hai to band ho jate hai sabhi darwaje
payar se raktha hu apne paas
gum ho jaati hai to nahi le pata mein saas

Kush ho gaya hai dil uske ane se
abb nahi socchata zindagi ke bandh talo ke bare mein
bandh the jo darwaze sare
aas lagi hai ki khul jayege sare

nahi rah sakta uske bina ek pal
dil karta hai saat mein use le ke kahi chal 
uski hasi hai sabse payari
muje mili hai wo hai meri chabi!







Sunday 17 February 2013

My Sunday!!!



After making class "presentation"... time was to do some hand practice on both pencil sketch and water colour....a bit satisfy with the results...